I choose me

Too many inquiries about chasing men. Ladies listen, men do not get chased, dogs do. A man who is interested in you will do everything in his power to make sure you know that. If you are constantly being sent to voicemail or texting him and getting late responses you need to move on.

Women are persistent creatures and we want what we want. It's not easy for us to give up on people either. We are strong lovers and quick to react. We care so much about everyone's feelings and we love ensuring that everything around us is okay. Have you ever asked yourself what do I want? What do I want out of a relationship? What do I want out of life?

I choose me. I choose my happiness, I choose my peace, I choose my worth, and I choose my peace of mind. We as women have to stop reaching. We reach and we reach for things that are unreachable.

We want marriage, we want a relationship, we want kids before a certain age. We don't want to choose ourselves though. What's wrong with catering to yourself. What's wrong with going on a spontaneous solo vacation? What's wrong with catching an early morning matinée by yourself? We need to find that inner happiness before accepting another soul into our lives.

Why do we rush!!! No seriously why? We see our age rising to 30 and we start panicking. Like oh no I'm almost 30 and I kinda wanted to get married before that. But why? After 30 you are going to be slayyyyyyed to the Gods. 30 year old women are so sure of themselves that men are magnetized towards them. In our late 20's we scare them away because the only thing on our mind is marriage. Every conversation starts with marriage and every conversation ends with marriage. 

I choose me. I don't want to chase anymore. I don't want to "look" or "seek" anymore. I want to be found. My radiance of choosing my happiness over anyone else's will exude through my soul. I won't have to do anything but be me.