Being the single friend is hard I get it. However, you don't understand how poppin' you actually are. You are in a stage where you can find yourself before exploring your endless opportunities. The world is your oyster!
Take advantage of meeting new people and learning what your "type" actually is. Enjoy going out and learning about different personality types and characteristics. It can be hard for some people to step outside of their comfort zone and really Unleash themselves to get to know someone.
The key is to go into the situation without expectations. We talked about the "list" in our last post. Don't go into a situation expecting anything. You are single and mingling. If you end up liking each other then great! But don't expect that to happen right away. Remember that you, and the opposing party are single so there should be no expectations. You will have way less anxiety meeting new people by having that mindset.
If the person is for you the universe will ensure that it will happen. You don't have to stress about not getting a phone call or text the next day. It just wasn't meant to be.
Being single is the perfect time to get to know YOU. Your goals, your vision for yourself, your feelings, your thoughts about yourself, and how to make promises to yourself.
Before allowing another soul into your life it is important to be happy within yourself first and know who are you. Once you allow another soul into your life their actions and words towards you should only grow you as a person but not make you who you are.
Being single is about being YOU. Loving YOU, Embracing YOU, Owning who YOU are, and being happy by yourself. The way you perceive yourself is the way everyone else will perceive you. You will attract your perfect partner by being confident within yourself and not actually needing them to make you happy. Them being around you is just an addition to your happiness.
Live your singleness fearlessly and confidently and you will continue to kill the game before finding someone to match your fly.
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